Monday, 14 November 2011

True Friendship and sincerity beats popularity hands-down .

Recently , I found out plenty number of peoples get to know each other and become friends with others by looking on their popularity status . They're craving for popularity so much that they wanted to become friends with famous people just because of  these famous people could get them invited to parties, introduce them to the public and stuffs. Well , being popular has its benefits . It was a relief of not-to-be-called-names anymore and it was a comfort to feel as though you belonged .
  But do you think is that easy and fun to be famous ? let me tell you , you lost freedom in yourself . You have to struggle to keep up yourself , doing things you didn't feel comfortable doing , hanging out and sit at the same table with groups and cliques which you did not actually like , you cannot do things you wanted such as picking your nose in public(lol) and control every action of yourself in front your friends in order to keep up social status , look high class and so so so on .
     Do you realize that social scene no longer belong to people like us ? I mean cool people . Being friends with ordinary, unpopular people and nerdy perhaps is so much more awesome . They like you simply because of who you are, not because of you were invited to parties and hang out with hot guys -.- . You will always feel comfortable with them and their support will encourage you to broaden your horizons . Instead of hanging out at the mall , they'll planned picnics in the park . Instead of talking about branded stuff , they'll chat about funny and silly things which will cause you to laugh your ass off for the whole day . Their admiration was sincere and reciprocated . Those famous friends with high standard of popularity only teach you to recognize what is artificial and fake . But these ordinary friends teaches you a true friendship is found in unlikely places and it sincerity beats popularity hands-down .
   It is better to be complimented your kindness than your clothes . It is more gratifying to be admired for your talents than your social status . Find friends who love you just because you are that person , will provide more happiness and comfort than any amount of popularity ever could .

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